The Book

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About the Book

My book, “Reflections on Life, Love and Lessons Learned at the Pool”, is both personal and universal.

It weaves together stories from my life—including the love story of my parents—with reflections on the moments that shape us in ways we often don’t fully see until much later, or sometimes never at all.

Because what I’ve learned is this:
The most important parts of our lives don’t always announce themselves.
They happen quietly—
in conversations, in relationships, in the simple act of being there.

Testimonials

Small town Iowa girl makes big splash in Omaha!

"Her successes are directly related to the experiences Becky brought forward from her youth…. her hometown, the pool, and the building blocks of Midwestern values. This memoir documents the influences — family, music, friends, relationships, teachers, coaches, and faith — that created a caring, encouraging individual, seeking to inspire the best in others. Add this to your Summer reading list. You won’t be disappointed!"

Michael McKee

CEO EmPower Breakfast International.

"I had the privilege of working with Becky and witnessing her lead with integrity and compassion, cultivating truly genuine and meaningful connections. This memoir beautifully captures her essence through thoughtful storytelling and offers many insights that can enrich any reader’s personal journey."

Anne Branigan

Retired SVP of the Greater Omaha Chamber
Former Board member and active Omaha Public Library Foundation Advisory Council

“The way Becky talks about the adversity she's faced is so authentic & relatable. The way she weaves poems, photos, and songs through feels like a time capsule preserving precious memories. This story deserves to be shared and cherished.”

Tera Thomas

Chief Advancement Officer, YMCA of Greater Omaha

“I just got your book in the mail today. Can’t wait to read it. I have the most vivid and fond “core” memories of the Onawa pool. That picture of your dad at the basket window is iconic! Anyway, just wanted to say hi and congratulations”

Julie Preussner

Onawa Kid

Legacy Isn’t Something You Leave Behind

It’s something you live—every single day.
It’s in the way you treat people.
The way you listen.
The way you make someone feel seen, valued, and remembered.

Legacy isn’t built in grand gestures.
It’s built in moments.

And while you may never fully see the impact you have,
those moments matter more than you know.

Becky Phipps

Author & Keynote Speaker

This Work is Personal to Me

It’s shaped by the people who showed up in my life—
and the realization that even the smallest interactions can carry lasting meaning.

I don’t believe connection is accidental.


I believe it’s intentional.

And I believe we all have the ability to create it—
in our work, our relationships, and our everyday lives.